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  • Feeling Low?- How You Can Give your Self-Esteem a Boost

    Sometimes in our lives, we all go through periods where we start to think less of ourselves.  We may feel that we can’t do anything right.  Some people may even have thoughts of sadness like wishing they were never born.  If you have ever felt this way before, there are ways you can’t alleviate it.  Here are few effective ways you can give your self-esteem a boost during hard times.

    Treat Yourself Sometimes

    Nothing makes a woman feel good than taking some time off to pamper herself.  This could be going out and treating yourself to some ice cream.  Or it could be giving yourself a manicure and a pedicure.  Taking some time for yourself is beneficial for your mental well-being and gives your self-esteem a boost.

    Treating yourself to a makeover is a great way to boost your self-confidence.

    Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

    If you continue to do this, you will be lowering your self-esteem.  I’m talking about comparing yourself to others.  It is not good to compare yourself to other people’s accomplishments.  Everybody is different and accomplishes things at different levels.  This girl may be good at cooking certain dishes than I am.  I may be better at writing poetry than the next person.  This is all perfectly fine.  Thinking that others are better or have more than you will shake your confidence badly.

    Use Hopeful, Positive Statements

    I recently wrote an article about how beneficial positive affirmations are.  These are known as short statements which you can say to yourself to boost your self-confidence.  One example of a statement that is like this is “I can do anything once I set my mind to it.”  Another could be “I am a smart, kind person.”  You can try saying these types of statements to yourself sometimes.  You could also try posting them on a board you have in your room as a reminder to yourself.  These statements are a good way to improve the way you feel about yourself.

    Develop a Proactive Lifestyle

    Having an active lifestyle of exercising and eating right is another great way to boost your self-esteem.  When you take care of yourself, you start to feel good about yourself.  Studies have shown that being health-conscious has a big impact on your self-esteem.  Regular physical activity not only improves body image.  It increases self-confidence as well.  Eating the right type of foods fuels your body with energy and the ability to face every day with confidence. We all go through periods of feeling bad about ourselves.  But if we try implementing these four suggestions in our lives, we would be on our way to boosting our self-esteem during this spring season. 

    What tips do you have for boosting your self-esteem?  Drop a few that have worked for you in the comments section below.  As always, be sure to like or share this post with the next girl you know who is feeling low.

  • Why Self-Care is a Must for Every Woman

    Last weekend, I attended a little self-pampering Zoom party with my friends.  We painted our nails, did our hair, and engaged in some beauty talk.  It was fun and a great way to unwind together virtually.

    Now and then, we as women must take some time out of our busy lives to treat ourselves despite being mostly at home.  Even if we’re not going out socially very often, we can still beautify ourselves sometimes.  Here are several reasons why this is vital for us.

    Self –Care makes us Feel Good

    When you get your hair done, get a manicure, or a facial, you begin to feel different.  You will start to feel better about yourself physically and mentally.  So instead of paying for someone else to do your hair or nails, consider looking up some YouTube videos to learn how to do these things.  Buy some base coat, top coat, and your favorite color nail polish.  Buy a nail filer and clipper and start doing it yourself today.

    During the party, one of my friends taught us how to make our sugar scrub to exfoliate our skin.  Sugar scrubs are typically expensive at stores like Bath & Body Works.  But if you make it yourself, you will be saving yourself a nice amount of money.

    My little homemade sugar body scrub. It was pretty easy to make.

    Self-Care gives you Peace of Mind

    Another thing about self-care is that it gives you peace of mind.  By taking some time out for ourselves, we would give our minds the inner calm and serenity it needs.  We deal with so much regularly.  By practicing self-care, we give ourselves a chance to step away and breathe a little bit.  We will start to avoid burnout and feel more at peace in our lives.  Turn to self-care to put your mind at ease for a little while.

    Self-Care Makes you Happy

    Once you set aside a day to take care of yourself, you will feel a lot happier.  If you don’t have a day like this for yourself, you are depriving yourself of happiness.  You are also depriving yourself of a balanced life.  Every woman needs to maintain a sense of balance between work and fun.  This is especially important now that more women are working from home.  Strive to maintain a balanced schedule for your work so you can leave time for relaxation.

    Self-Care gives you More Confidence

    When you devote some time to just unwind and relax, you come out feeling more confident in yourself.  Whether you’re devoting a day to pampering yourself or you’re just laying on the couch watching TV or sketching on a drawing pad, self-care rejuvenates you with a feeling you can do anything.  After you devote a day or two to self-care, you will walk away feeling more focused and assured in your work.  Self-care is good for the heart, mind, and soul.

    What types of things do you do for self-care or to unwind at home?  Feel free to share in the comments section below.  Also, be sure to like or share this blog post with the next woman you know.       

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